Shred the cabbage with a knife or in a food processor as finely as possible.
Fry the cabbage in half of the butter in a large frying pan or wok on medium high heat until softened, about 5-6 minutes.
Add spices and vinegar.
Sauté until fragrant.
Place the cabbage in a bowl, and reserve.
Melt the rest of the butter in the same pan.
Add garlic, onion, and curry paste.
Sauté for 1 minute.
Add ground meat and sauté until the meat is cooked through and most of the liquid has evaporated.
Lower the heat a little and add the cabbage back to the pan.
Stir until everything is warmed through.
Finish seasoning with salt and pepper to taste.